Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Am I normal?


So I Google Women’s Sex Blogs and guess what the top sites have to say? That if you like sex you are a Jezebel, you are Wicked, but most cater to: Why Women don’t like sex, these are all excuses, excuses, and more excuses. What I want to know is am I normal. Can a married woman really want sex all the time like me, even after 10 years and 3 kids?
Yes, Women want to have sex and lots of it. I have a feeling we are all confused and when we don’t fit into the “norms”, we are lost and go looking for advice and what we find is that as women it is normal to not want to have sex and that it is normal to nag our significant other about feelings. I mean that is the reason you don’t want to have sex right? Your feelings aren’t being met, he won’t listen, he doesn’t understand, he won’t cuddle without trying to get some. What a load of excuses. I want to be FUCKED. I don’t need feelings all the time. Yes, I do like those cuddle times, and I like to be kissed while making dinner, and having you hold my hand in public, but what I really like is when you pinch my ass at the store and rub your dick on my ass. It’s not that I am different from any other female. It’s not the action but the anticipation of that action that gets me excited. It actually makes sex more fun. Thinking about sex when you aren’t doing it, or planning it makes it more fun.
So the all important question, Am I normal? Yes, I believe I am. I believe all women want sex and it isn't our significant others job to figure out what we mean when we give it in secret code, even we can't even figure out the key to understand it ourselves. It is time to say what we mean not what we are told to say. I am here to help you understand that we as women, mothers, wives, workers, and head of households are always in our sexual prime. It is not someone else’s job to tell us what we are to expect, how we are to act after marriage and children. I want sex the same way and just as often as I did when I was 18.

1 comment:

  1. This is great. Please keep it up. I am looking foward to more. I have also been married for 10 years and have 3 kids.

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